It's About What The ____ Wants

The age old argument of who’s wants in the Domme submissive relationship is it about?

Now some think it’s all about what the Domme wants. In relationships it’s about what both want and the bond the kink builds. Like with Best Bitch I want him to be the best version of himself he can be, I want to take care of him, and I want to play with him in ways he enjoys (even if it’s hate/enjoy). He wants to take care of me. He delights not only in the more sexual elements, but in running errands and doing mundane tasks because he loves to know I’m happy. In the end it’s a mutually beneficial relationship and it’s about both of us. He’s my sweet boy, and my first and foremost thought is about his wellness and enjoyment. We both put each other first.

Now in Domming online it changes slightly. I actually love doing a bunch of different styles of Domming. I really like to feel what the other person is into and play on that because my kink is just being able to push all the correct buttons. And I stay away from kinks I don’t find any enjoyment in. But when Domming for money it is even more about what the sub wants because obviously even if my kink wasn’t pushing the correct buttons, I’d want to provide the best Domming experience possible.

This is one reason I want to know what you want, and the more clearly you understand and can communicate your desires, the more I can play you like a fiddle. Which I love.