You Get Out What You Put In

Like anything in life, you get out of submission what you put in. The time, energy, and attention you put in you receive back, but even more-so the honesty and vulnerability.

Mistress Mystique Hoops

11/17/20212 min read

Domme Mistress with purple hair in red lace lingerie
Domme Mistress with purple hair in red lace lingerie

Like anything in life, you get out of submission what you put in. And no I don't just mean tributes. The time, energy, and attention you put in you receive back, but even more-so the honesty and vulnerability. I want to know your darkest kinks and desires. I want to know what dirty thoughts you fantasized about as you came. I want to know what about femdom draws you to it, and to me. Many times subs say "whatever makes you happy Mistress". And while I want you to submit, and trust me to make choices for you, I also want to know what you actually enjoy (even if it's a weird love/hate like humiliation or eating your own cum).

A great deal of my enjoyment comes from understanding what my sub enjoys, and using that to play with scenarios that turn them on. This is part of what makes me feel powerful. That I can understand how you tick, and then use it to make you completely out of your head. There is nothing more beautiful than watching a sub fully in subspace follow your every command with absolute devotion, and to see the level of calm that comes over them. Because they have nothing to worry about, nothing to think about, nothing to decide. I've taken that all away, and all they need to do is be and obey.

To do this I need access to your thoughts, even when you're not sure of them. We're here to explore and play with them in this safe space. When I ask about fantasies I want to know your "worst" thoughts. I personally love amateur erotica and fan fiction, and will read the most fucked up taboo things that exist. I realize just it being taboo is a lot of what turns me on about it. I even weirdly get turned on by reading Chuck Tingle stories (look it up he's hilarious), but I digress.

So the more you want to feel submissive or to feel owned, the more you need to be willing to put into your submission. I want to interact with you, learn about you, and put you into a deeper subspace than you've ever been in. And yes tributes are part of this in the end as well because it allows me to spend more time on you, and it shows me you value my time and experience. But I will still need that vulnerability to truly be able to fully own you.